Views on Society Big-Sized Girls ~Thoughts post~

We're in the 21st century now, and the world is changing, so as the people living in it, including you and me. But what I want to rant or write my thoughts here is on the society nowadays. Society, a group of people or a community. There are the good and the bad ones. Sometimes, its just the way they are. What I'm saying is, the view of society towards these Big-Sized girls which including me. I'm not sure what the society's view on beauty. Is it being too skinny, beautiful? And being fat, ugly? Sometimes, society makes girls like myself feel insecure about our body, how big is it, what will people say and hearing those taunting and insults really hurts. And sometimes, this insults, bullying can drive a girl to suicide. BULLYING SHOULD STOP. Girls like us, dream of being skinny just like other people but with people bullying and insult us won't do any good. For me, I like a normal sized body, I blamed myself for eating too much, I know its bad but it doesn't mean that people can just put me down like that. Girls who are fat, being laughed at. IT HURTS YOU KNOW? What is beauty actually? Does it define by your size of your body? Or it is define by personality? Nobody knows because it keeps changing everyday.

One of the reasons why we feel insecure? Imagine a skinny girl or a normal sized girl says that she is fat and she needs to lose weight. I heard my sister and my friends says this when i'm around with them. How this makes me feel? I FEEL INSULTED. REALLY. You guys have the perfect body, the body i've always wanted to have and yet you're saying you're fat? Then what am I? A giant? A big fat whale? Have you ever seen how much I want a body like yours? Have you ever feel like you can eat anything and not gain weight? You can eat anything but I can't. You ate a little and said that you're fat? For me, its pathetic for those skinny people saying that they're fat. I'm fat and hearing those just made it seems like an insult to me and also for other girls.

I wished that society would just stop with this judgmental insults towards big-sized girls. Every girl is beautiful, whether you're skinny or fat, you're beautiful. Not in everyone's eyes but in some, you're indeed a beautiful person. People need to realize this soon.

No Hate, cheers~